The books were delivered today and we will get them out to the family soon. We are really glad to have some of my mother’s memories recorded. Everyone has to realize these are her memories, as she remembers them. It is how it had to be written, always in her opinion. Thank you for recording the story for us and getting it into print. None of us were able to do it.
Nanette does a wonderful job of conveying a person’s real life stories into one easy-to-read memoir-style book. She was very patient with my father and knew just how to get him to open up on subjects I hadn’t heard him talk about ever before! She is so kind and courteous. Her work is top-notch and I wouldn’t hesitate to have her tell a loved one’s story. I will be forever thankful to have the treasure of my father’s legacy to give to my children and then to their children.
Dear Nanette, It is a privilege and joy working with you. When I count my blessings, you are high among them. Thank you for applying your considerable talents towards making the publication of Mom’s memoirs a reality. With my admiration and fondest regards,
The experience of writing my father’s memoir with Nanette was exceptional. It is a treasure we will have in our family forever.
Nanette is an absolute pleasure to work with. She is professional, reliable and sees that her work is done right; down to the very last details.
I only wish everyone could have the incredible experience of gaining both the insight and knowledge of someone you care about after you learn about their history. It changes you.
I hope you will acquire what I did, in both the emotional charge and connection gained because you better understand their story, philosophies and ideology.
Working on my father’s life story was a truly inspiring experience that connected me to my father in ways I never thought possible. It also helped me jump start my own business vision, one that I have had for decades.
Caring for the Mother Ship, 2012
I gave my book to my brother and his wife and they couldn’t stop praising it!!! When we spoke on the phone they both went on and on about what a great memoir it is.
By the way, does one ever have a “second memoir” or “chapter” as an addition to the original memoir years later?
I received a copy of the book and I was extremely impressed. The pictures were a nice surprise. I am happy that I was able to contribute some small part to the book. It was a fun and an enjoyable experience to go down memory lane and help to share part of Ron’s life.
I was most impressed by how you took all of the accumulated information and organized it into a very interesting book. I know Jim Hruska feels the same way and please feel free to use us as professional references.
S&S Automotive Group
Dear Nanette –
I am SO glad Mom decided to write/record her memoir. It is great to have all the stories in writing and with photos to help me remember them all. Mom's right, we've heard a lot of the stories growing up, but again, it's so good to have them in writing.
As I was reading the memoir the first time, I felt like it moved fast, as if I was just skimming the surface of Mom's life. l was reading it like an autobiographical book and noticed myself wanting it/Mom to slow down, indulge me with more details and stories and reflections. But it's not an autobiographical novel like Isabel Allende's House of Spirits or Victor Villasenor's Rain of Gold, it's a memoir, a relatively brief accounting of Mom's life and memories and guiding beliefs. Mom and Nanette, can you write a second edition and a sequel? :)
I loved the tid-bits of stories sprinkled throughout--the occasional clear, specific image accompanying a memory. For example, the description of the straps Mom used to tighten her roller skates to her sneakers before she skated around the cement patio of the main house in Cuba, or the espresso Lolly let her sip in the kitchen. These are the pictures that made the memoir come alive for me. I would have loved to read even more about Granny Gert and Abuelito, Uncle Chips and Uncle Don. It felt as if there was a very light touch on these people that I think of as central to Mom's life... but perhaps there wasn't time or space for a deeper dive.
It has been hugely significant to me to talk with Mom about her memoir to understand some of her decisions about what she included and excluded, and about what she said and did not say.
I am also so grateful to have the photos dispersed throughout the memoir. I love seeing Granny Gert in her tennis outfit, or Mom holding Kristin and me on her lap. It's fun to see the photos and connect them with the text. Well done!
Written by a close friend to a storyteller after reading her book:
"I just finished your memoir….I loved it. Thank you. It was as if I was sitting with you, listening to you. Somehow, you mastered your history without being boring or ‘false’. It was a pleasure to read it and I want both my girls to read it.
"The pictures are wonderful….well, everything about it is just grand. And it is so YOU….you know yourself so well and it is a pleasure to read how you matured and love your family. I smiled, and then laughed at the small mention of Bruce. Not necessary to put in anything else! "
My book has gotten great reviews from all who have read it. More importantly, I am well satisfied with it. So, thank you.
I have shared my dad's memoirs with several close friends and they loved it. Thanks for a great project.
I cannot tell you how wonderful it is to have Dad's book - and how much others were absolutely so amazed and impressed with it. I have been living in Chicago the past 7 months to be with him and he passed away late last month. I was so fortunate to be able to spend that time with him. I wanted to let you know since you share his story with a very small circle. I am so thankful to have this book to hold forever along with my memories.
Dear Nanette- You did a wonderful job soliciting information from Mom, and the finished book is very professional in appearance and content. You were good at not imposing yourself into the book (which is why I wanted someone else to do Mom's story, and not me). Thanks for your patience with Mom and me throughout this project. I hope you understand how much she has appreciated this whole process. I am glad you enjoyed getting to know her, too. I am always struck by how she doesn't view herself as particularly intelligent, brave, curious or otherwise special.when her life experiences provide evidence to the contrary.
Thank you for your TLC. You have amazing patience. I am very impressed.
Seeing and hearing the reaction of my children and grandchildren is a biggest reason I am glad we did this. They tell me now that reading both the history and funny facts about our family and seeing the pictures is more precious than anything else I could ever have given them.
I am also grateful for the CD you gave to me of our interview. I would give anything to have a recording of my parent's voices today, and I am 87 years old! It is unimaginable the joy that the voice of my mom or dad could bring me today. Feeling this made me think that my grandchildren might like to hear me, too.
Dear Nanette- My story reflected the right amount of preparation and it was an accurate account of my life. My children liked the book, so that was a success! I think that several of my friends should do this so I have and will continue to recommend Memoirs by Design (and you) to them. I have told them that they will enjoy the experience and learn a lot as well.
Dear Nanette- The situation with my mother's story was probably not typical for you. I know that the interview was hard because of my mother's mental condition. I thank you for your extreme patience with both Mother Dear and me in this process. I am pleased with everything - from the Fact Sheet, to the Interview Questions, to the number of photographs we were able to include in my mother's story. The cost was appropriate and I will gladly recommend your service to other family and friends.
I just wanted to let you know that my mom gave us our books last night and they were wonderful. You did an awesome job. Thank you.
Frank and Virginia said the session was a delight and they thoroughly enjoyed it. I most certainly will talk up your services as I feel like it is a great thing to do. I wish we could afford to do the whole book at this time, but anything will be great. Hope your holidays were wonderful and you have a very happy and successful new year.
Dear Nanette- I have been waiting for a quiet moment to write to you. I talked with my Dad and he agreed that he liked the idea of talking with you. Unfortunately, he died unexpectedly on Jan 1. I am still in his home town with my siblings but will be going home on Friday. I really wish we had had the opportunity to get some of his history.
He did write down one of the stories he used to tell us when we were kids. He sent it to my daughter for her Christmas present. He ended it by saying that next time he saw her he would finish the story.
We are all very sad but know that he is with our mother now. Thank you for keeping in touch and good luck with your quest.
I just wanted to let you know that we presented Mom and my siblings with her story the other day while celebrating her birthday. Everyone just absolutely, thoroughly, 100% enjoyed them. They thought they were great. In fact, people were asking about your company and the work you do. I am sure you will end up having some business for the future from these people. Everyone was extremely impressed. Take care and thank you!
We have many caregivers coming over these days. We need 24-hr care now, and everyone is reading the story about Mother Dear. It is such a great thing to have, because they can see she had a life and story and they learn a little bit about her. I am so thankful for that little book.
This was a delightful project and one that will benefit the Museum for many years to come. We will be able to share this history with new tour guides that are in training. We also hope to shorten the story for use in creating a small book on the history of the family. We are delighted to have this recording in our possession. Thank you so very much for your generosity. The Museum
The Humphrey Museum
Nanette took the memories I had of my dog. She turned them into a beautiful story that still brings tears to my eyes whenever I read it.
Hi Nanette, I hope you are well. I wanted to let you know my mom died suddenly on March 23. My siblings have all remarked how grateful we are that we have her oral history. Thank you so very much!
Thank you for interviewing me and writing this short story about the birth of my son. It looks great! Thanks so much for everything and I will be in touch.
I just want to say thanks a lot for the job you did on my book. I'm so glad we did this! The response from everybody who has read it has been just great, and it's been so much more than I ever expected. I really appreciate everything you did to make it happen. If I can tell anybody about what a great job you did, tell them to call me!
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"Saving history, one person at a time" in the Denver Catholic Register.
"Faith Memoirs" in the Denver Catholic Register.
"Save Your Life" in Explore Life from www.SeniorOutlook.com.
"Writer Helps Clients Leave Legacy" in Your Hub in The Denver Post.
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